Writing has always had a special place in my heart and its
roots go way back to my childhood, to my father, my inspiration.
My father has
kept a journal, a daily diary since he was, I believe 20 years old, sort of chronicles, at
first of his life and then our lives. He would write down all he did every day
and along with that, he would also write down community happenings, a little
note of news, local, nationwide and or global events which occurred on that day.
He has a record of everything and anything that happened in our tiny community
where I grew up and where record keeping was almost nonexistent. A tiny
catholic rural community in India. He meticulously noted birthdays,
anniversaries, and even deaths, along with details of dignitaries, clergy
coming and going. He was a walking encyclopedia of our community's history.
He
is well known in the community partly for that reason, as a historian, their
source of information. They come looking for him when they need to corroborate,
or fact check certain community events from the past. His commitment to daily
journaling was noteworthy, pun intended.
So given this kind of background, I too had started
keeping a diary when I went to college. And when I moved to the USA, it became
even more of a commitment as I was the first one out of my family to go
overseas, to a foreign land of which they had only heard. I too wrote down
details of everything and anything of what I did daily.
But when the children
arrived, the writing took a back seat. I still did write in my diary but now
they were only bullets, of mostly things the children were accomplishing or
doing on that day and sometimes it would be weeks before I even caught up with
it.
Then came the digital camera and with that writing seemed even less
necessary. Why write when I could take pictures of anything and everything as a
record keeping. And in fact, like my father, I have now become the source of
pictures for friends, family, and community. Shortly thereafter arrived Facebook
and then things changed for me. That was a significant turning point in my
writing journey. It gave me an opportunity to share my inner thoughts, my
so-called ramblings with my friends and family all at the same time.
Over the
years, it was sporadic thoughts but now I am focusing more on it.
People ask me
what I am up to these days, this is what I am doing, focusing on myself. This
is sort of my self-care. I do not know where it will take me, but I have been
enjoying this journey so far. It is fulfilling to my soul, it is letting me express myself, reflect on my experiences while trying to make sense of the
world around me. It has taken various forms, from writing letters home,
journaling, photo journaling to blogging.
My writing still revolves a lot
around a picture, a photograph. I love it when friends and family comment on my
posts, they message me telling me how much they enjoyed reading them or could
relate to what I had written. Just by simply writing about today, I can’t help
but reflect on some of things from my childhood, how far I have come from there
to here, literally thousands of miles, with blessings, love and how it has helped
me discover myself, to learn, educate , to further broaden my horizons, engage with the community.
I sincerely hope
you will continue to join me on this journey. I am grateful to all of you. Ramblings on a Sunday evening. What about you? Are you inspired by anyone in your family? Do let me know your thoughts in the comments. I appreciate
you taking the time to read my unfiltered ramblings.
Pictured here is my dad, doing his thing, writing in his diary.
Very inspiring
ReplyDeleteThank you so much.
DeleteWritting is amazing and you are very good at it. I do write but not regularly. Just when emotions take over, for my self. You are doing a lovely job. I enjoy reading you
ReplyDeleteThank you dear for your feedback. Glad to hear that you enjoy reading my ramblings.
DeleteLoved the way the short and sweet memories described. Writing diary in my family belongs to my mom, who does even today .We will be shocked to see her diaries with so many information and messages to us (children) happened every day . We are her world , so as I’m with my kids too. Like you said, I don’t write but keep as picture saved as memories to cherish . Sorry too long comment😁 . Let Rekha’s Ramblins continue….
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your feedback. I can totally relate.
DeleteWriting is an amazing experience. I do write sometimes. Pedikar sir you are doing lovely job.keep it up
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your feedback. He is happy reading this comment.
DeleteThanks Rekha for sharing your “legacy of journaling”. Beautifully written! You inspired me today for continuing my daily writing. As a teenager I used to write in a notebook but lost interest when there was no privacy! After ages I started again during the Covid, and continued until 2022! Now that you have inspired me I will start from today.. November 6th!
ReplyDeleteThanks for always being there even with the distance between us.🤗🤗
Thank you so much. I am happy to hear that you are back to writing. It's never too late.
DeleteI also love documenting my days through journal entries and pictures. Maybe I get that from you!
ReplyDeleteIt makes me extremely happy to know that you have inherited that love for writing from me.
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