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Ramblings!!

 Writing has always held a special place in my heart. I find the act of putting thoughts and emotions into words truly liberating.

But except for posting a little here and there on Facebook, I didn’t publish much.

One of the reasons I hesitated to publish my writings was the fear of judgment and criticism.

 So, you may ask, why now?

Firstly, Now, I have come to realize that perfection is not my goal, authenticity is.

Secondly, I was inspired. For years, I kept my writings hidden, unsure if they were ready to be seen. But encouraged by my sister’s gentle words and moved by a friend’s successful blog, I finally understood it’s never too late to begin. This blog will be my platform to share my unfiltered ramblings—without worrying about who reads them or what they think.

 As the Hindi saying goes: "कल करे सो आज कर, आज करे सो अब"
(Do tomorrow’s work today, and today’s work now.)

So, without further delay, I embark on this writing journey with a renewed sense of purpose and freedom.

Thirdly, I write for myself. Not for validation, not for applause. Just the simple joy of being able to untangle my thoughts, reflect on life’s many turns, and telling my truth. Now that I have more time than I did when the children were little, I feel ready to honor this part of myself more fully.Whether my words echo with one person or a hundred, the act of writing itself is fulfilling. It's my sanctuary—a space where I can be vulnerable, honest, and wholly me.Whether it's through storytelling, personal reflections, or sharing snippets of daily life, I have the freedom to experiment and discover my unique voice.

Though writing can feel solitary, I believe sharing opens the door to connection with like-minded individuals. I don’t know who will read these ramblings—but if they resonate, spark a thought, or bring comfort to even one individual, it will be more than enough. I hope this space becomes a gentle gathering point for kindred spirits, those who find solace in storytelling and joy in reflection. Writing has the power to bridge gaps, break down barriers, and create a sense of belonging.

So, publishing these thoughts is not just about starting a blog. It’s about stepping into courage, the courage that I lacked for years.

From now on, each post will be a marker of growth, a piece of my evolving self. Each word I put down on paper is an opportunity for self-discovery and self-expression. It challenges me to think deeper, to be more introspective, and to continuously improve my “self.”

I hope you will join me in wandering through the words, through my Ramblings!!





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