When Silence Becomes the Final Conversation...... Yesterday, I came across a post in one of my online groups that has stayed with me ever since. Someone was asking for advice. They had just learnt through a common friend about someone they used to know, someone who had ghosted them for almost two decades ; this person was now dying. They wondered if they should go visit. My immediate reaction was simple. "Yes. Go." Life is short. Regret is heavy. If there is even the smallest chance for closure, why not take it? But as I began reading the comments, I was surprised. The overwhelming majority advised against visiting. Their reasoning was one I hadn't considered. "If this person ghosted you for years, they probably had their reasons. You may be the very last person they would want to see." I kept scrolling. Some suggested sending a postcard or a simple note instead. But most people felt the same way: don't go. Let the ghosts of...